Patrice Griffin Turns Pain Into Purpose: From Survivor to Author and Child Safety Advocate

Ross: What inspired you to create your second book?

Patrice: My second book was inspired by my desire to help protect children through education and open conversations. After sharing my own story in my first book, I realized there was also a need for resources that could help children learn about body safety in a gentle, age-appropriate way. I wanted to create something that could empower both children and parents.

Ross: What made you choose this topic?

Patrice: I chose this topic because child safety and advocacy are deeply personal to me. Many children are never taught about boundaries, safe adults, or how to speak up if something feels wrong. I wanted to create a tool that helps start those conversations early in a way that feels safe, engaging, and empowering instead of fearful.

Ross: How did the release of your first book impact your life and career?

Patrice: Releasing my first book changed my life in many ways. It gave me the courage to use my voice publicly and helped me connect with people who related to my story. It also opened doors for advocacy work, speaking opportunities, and allowed me to turn pain into purpose through Patrice’s Kids.

Ross: How much did the justice and ruling in your case impact your healing?

Patrice: The ruling was meaningful because it validated my truth and reminded me that survivors deserve to be heard. While no court decision can erase trauma, accountability can be an important part of the healing journey. For me, healing is ongoing, but speaking out helped me reclaim my voice and my power.

Ross: What advice would you give to victims who haven’t spoken out about the abuse they experienced?

Patrice: I would tell them that there is no perfect timeline for healing or speaking out. Everyone’s journey is different. Most importantly, what happened to them was not their fault. Whether they choose to speak publicly, privately, or only to someone they trust, their voice matters and they deserve support.

What advice would you give to victims who are having a hard time healing from the abuse they experienced?

Healing is not linear, and it’s okay to have difficult days. Give yourself grace and allow yourself to heal at your own pace. Therapy, support systems, faith, creativity, advocacy, and community can all play a role in healing. Most importantly, do not allow your trauma to define your worth.

What do you want readers’ biggest takeaways to be from your books?

I want readers to walk away feeling empowered, informed, and hopeful. I want survivors to know they are not alone, and I want parents and communities to understand how important it is to create safe spaces for children. My books are about awareness, healing, courage, and protection.

What can your readers expect next from you?

Readers can expect more advocacy work, community initiatives through Patrice’s Kids, and more educational resources centered around child safety, healing, and empowerment. I want to continue creating tools and conversations that make a lasting impact on children and families.